

This Valentine’s Day, while many celebrate romantic connection, we’re shining a light on a different kind of love: the deep, human compassion that defines truly great care. At its heart, emotional intelligence in care is about connection. It’s the ability to notice how someone is feeling, respond with empathy, and create a sense of safety and dignity in everyday moments. In social care, this isn’t a ‘nice to have’, it’s a core professional skill.
Research consistently shows that emotional intelligence among nurses and carers can positively impact caring behaviours, strengthening communication, trust and person-centred care. As one healthcare careers guide puts it, emotional intelligence helps care workers understand and manage emotions (their own and others’) leading to stronger relationships and more compassionate, effective care. In short, compassion is a genuine superpower in care: it reduces stress, de-escalates difficult situations, and makes work more meaningful for everyone involved.
At Dovehaven, emotional intelligence isn’t an abstract idea, it’s lived every day. As a family-run care group in the North West, Dovehaven’s CARES values (Compassion, Accountability, Respect in Diversity, Excellence and Strength in Unity) shape how teams work together and how residents are supported. Kindness and empathy are treated with the same importance as clinical competence.
Crucially, compassion is backed by practical career support. Dovehaven offers top quartile pay, including £14.00 per hour for senior care roles, alongside funded training, flexible rotas and clear progression pathways into leadership. Staff benefit from stable scheduling through an easy-to-use app, ongoing development opportunities, and a culture where people genuinely look out for one another.
This combination matters. When carers feel valued, supported and listened to, they’re more engaged and fulfilled. Evidence from across the sector shows that emotionally supportive workplaces increase empathy between colleagues and improve care experiences overall, reinforcing the link between staff wellbeing and quality outcomes for residents.
Care is, at its core, about relationships. Every day offers moments of connection: easing loneliness, preserving dignity, supporting families, and helping people feel safe and valued. On Valentine’s Day especially, it’s worth recognising that love in care doesn’t look like grand gestures, it looks like patience, presence and emotional understanding.
For career seekers, social care offers something rare: meaningful work with real progression. And for industry professionals, the message is clear, investing in emotional intelligence isn’t soft thinking, it’s smart workforce strategy.
At Dovehaven, compassion truly is a superpower. For those looking for a career with purpose, stability and heart, it’s a powerful place to grow.
Find out more here: Discover rewarding careers in care | Recruitment Dovehaven